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Created by Sabrina Peters, a registered psychologist, credentialled pastor, and mother of three. The Healthy You brings together clinical expertise, faith, and lived experience. You'll find thoughtful, evidence-based articles on mental health, marriage, motherhood, and Christian living, written to help you build a life of meaning, connection, and wholeness.
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The mother wound isn’t just about what happened, it’s about what was missing. When emotional needs go unmet, the ache can echo into adulthood. But healing is possible, and you can become the nurturer you always needed.
Do you find yourself caught in an endless loop of thoughts, struggling to make decisions and feeling overwhelmed? Don’t worry, you’re not alone! Check out these practical tips to help you overcome overthinking.
What you avoid doesn’t go away, it waits. The task, the tension, the emotion… it all quietly grows heavier over time. Avoidance brings short-term relief but long-term pain.
Your thoughts feel like facts, but most of them aren't. They're patterns your brain has rehearsed so often it no longer questions them. Learn to spot the most common unhelpful thinking styles, and start loosening their grip on how you feel.
We’re more “connected” than ever, yet more people feel lonely, unseen, and emotionally distant. Maybe what we need isn’t more content, but more presence.
Imposter Syndrome makes you feel like a fraud, even when you've earned your success through hard work and talent. In this article, we explore why so many of us struggle with feeling "not good enough" and offer practical steps to quiet that inner critic and start believing in your own worth
Perfectionism can keep you trapped in a cycle of stress, frustration, and never feeling "good enough." In this article, we explore the root causes of perfectionism, how it holds you back, and provide practical tips to break free and embrace a healthier mindset.
Some people seem to bounce back from hard things. The difference isn't luck. It's a quiet belief about where their power sits, and it shapes how they cope with everything. Here's what locus of control really means, and five honest ways to build a stronger sense of agency.
PTSD is more than just painful memories; it rewires the brain’s response to fear, making safety feel out of reach. Healing is possible through therapy, support, and reclaiming a sense of control over one’s story.
Depression is a complex mental health disorder influenced by various factors, but certain habits can exacerbate its symptoms. By identifying these habits, you can make meaningful changes to support your mental health.
Can’t seem to get a good night's sleep? Try these 10 easy tips—like relaxing before bed and unplugging from screens—to help you sleep better and wake up refreshed
Are you burning the midnight oil at work while life passes by? Discover the hidden drivers of workaholism—and how to reclaim balance for a healthier, happier life.
Social anxiety isn’t just about being shy or introverted. It’s a deep, persistent fear of being judged, scrutinised, or embarrassing yourself in social situations.
ADHD is more than being easily distracted or forgetting things. It is a brain-based condition that can affect focus, motivation, emotional regulation, impulsivity, time management, and daily functioning. This article explores what ADHD really is, and when it may be worth seeking a professional assessment.
In a world of endless digital connection, why are so many of us still feeling alone? Discover how real, meaningful relationships can bridge the gap to true connection
Social media is a great way to connect, but it can also lead to anxiety, like stressing over likes or mindlessly scrolling. By recognising seven of the biggest traps, you can make social media work for you instead of the other way around!
Setting boundaries is an essential part of maintaining healthy relationships, yet it often feels challenging due to guilt or fear, learn how to set clear boundaries that respect both your needs and others.
Discover why researchers are calling today’s youth, “The Anxious Generation” and explore the factors contributing to their heightened anxiety.
Do you ever feel like your emotions are running the show, snapping, spiralling, or shutting down before you even realise it? You’re not the only one. Here are a few simple, science-backed tools to help you regulate your emotions and feel more like yourself again.
You can speak up without being harsh. Assertiveness is the sweet spot between silence and shouting, a way to honour your needs while still valuing the person in front of you.
You don’t have to feel better to start, you have to start to feel better. Discover how Behavioural Activation can help you take that first small step.
Motivation is a feeling. Momentum is a habit. When you shrink the task and take that first small step, you shift everything. Progress begins the moment you stop waiting.
Feeling tired of life does not always mean you are depressed, but it does deserve care. Learn the difference between depression, burnout, grief and emotional exhaustion, and when to seek help
Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is more than just a need for cleanliness or order; it's a cycle of intrusive thoughts and repetitive behaviours that can be overwhelming.
Gratitude doesn’t cancel out pain, but it can coexist with it. And it can shift how we relate to it.
You can love your baby and still feel like a stranger in your own skin. Postnatal depression doesn’t mean you’re failing. It means your mind and body are asking for care.
The Healthy Mind
Your go-to resource for evidence-based mental health articles and practical worksheets and workbooks. Exploring everything from anxiety to depression, emotional regulation to perfectionism, and the science behind a healthier mind. Whether you're looking for tools, understanding, or simply to feel less alone, you'll find something here for you.
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Many families are built child-first, but when children become the centre of the home, both the marriage and the family can suffer. This unpacks why prioritising your marriage is not neglecting your kids, it’s often one of the best ways to love them, and what a biblically healthy family order looks like
The modern idol doesn't sit on a shrine. It sits on a stage, a podcast feed, a social media grid. And many of us are quietly bowing to it without realising. Here's how to recognise it, and come home.
Church hurt cuts deep. Healing asks two things of us — to let grief be witnessed, and to take responsibility for our own hearts. Without abandoning the bride. Without losing our faith.
The lie is that the single Christian life is a waiting room — that real life starts when the ring arrives. It has never been true, and it has done real damage to a generation of believers waiting for life to start instead of living the one they already have.
The fear of God isn't terror, it's awe, reverence, an awareness that reshapes how we live. And its disappearance has changed us for the worse. We can't afford to keep living without it.
God is far more interested in who we are when no one’s looking than in the image we present to others. It’s not about perfection but progress. Let’s focus on character, living from the inside out, and becoming who He truly designed us to be.
Feeling overwhelmed by the pressure to balance it all? Discover why rhythm, not balance, is the key to living a life of purpose and grace.
Not every thought you think is true, but the ones you believe will shape your emotions, your choices, and the direction of your life. Because freedom doesn’t always begin with changing your circumstances, it begins with renewing your mind.
Grief doesn’t mean God is absent, it may be where He’s found most. In your tears, silence, and sorrow, He is nearer than you think.
Jesus is always at the centre of our healing, but He often works through the tools, people, and resources He places along the way.
Therapy can be one of those tools, helping us process pain, build resilience, and walk in greater wholeness.
We don’t drift into Christlikeness. We don’t stumble into holiness. And we most definitely don’t become saints by accident.
Discipleship is hard. It asks something of you every single day. But here’s what we often forget, life is hard with or without God. And life without Jesus? That’s not just hard. It’s hollow. It’s exhausting. It’s empty.
Ever feel like you're "just" a mum? What if the unseen moments are actually sacred ones? Motherhood isn’t just hard work, it’s holy work.
Did you know It’s possible to be spiritually disciplined yet emotionally reactive, unable to handle criticism, navigate conflict well, or communicate needs in a healthy way.
People-pleasing isn’t kindness, it’s a survival strategy rooted in fear. True connection comes not from constant approval-seeking, but from setting boundaries and showing up as your authentic self.
What if the reason you feel out of sync is because you’ve separated your faith from your feelings, your pain from your prayers, and your mental health from your spiritual life? What if the best version of you has never been the busiest or most put-together — but the whole you?
Have you ever looked at your church or ministry as “me and mine”? It’s an easy trap to fall into. We can get so wrapped up in our own needs and successes that we end up building our own empire instead of His kingdom.
What if the greatest barriers to intimacy with God aren’t His distance — but our own distractions, self-reliance, and hidden shame?
The term "self-care" has become popular in recent times, but I prefer to think of it as soul care. This concept transcends merely tending to our physical or emotional needs; it encompasses the deeper aspects of who we are.
What happens when a pastor’s spiritual authority outpaces their emotional health? Without emotional wholeness, even the most gifted leaders can leave a trail of hurt and brokenness in their wake
Do you often feel like you’re racing against the clock, overwhelmed by endless tasks? You might be dealing with hurry sickness, not an official diagnosis, but a real experience with plenty of telltale signs
Gratitude is all about perspective - when we shift our focus, we see just how much we have to be thankful for every day
Emotions aren’t enemies; they’re God-given signals inviting us to deeper healing and connection with Him.
Jesus didn’t just stand at the center of the circle, He opened it wide for the lonely, the hurting, and the overlooked, inviting us to do the same
Discover how to embrace God's unforced rhythms of grace by slowing down, practicing solitude, and refueling your soul, so you can live with greater purpose, peace, and joy in His presence.
Can you really love God while hating others? The truth is, loving God means loving people—one simply can’t exist without the other.
Faith is the divine force that transforms reality, moving mountains and drawing us closer to God. It's not just believing in the impossible but living in the power of His promises when we fully trust.
The Healthy Christian
Looking to strengthen your faith? Explore Christ-centered, Bible-based teachings that will draw you closer to God. Written by a pastor, find uplifting stories, scriptures, and meaningful insights to deepen your relationship with Him.
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Why do couples stop having sex? A couples therapist explains the real reasons, emotional, physical, and relational, and the evidence-based ways to find your way back.
You used to find them endearing. Now their chewing makes your skin crawl. A psychologist explains the 'ick' in marriage, why it lands, what it really means, and how to find your way back.
Love languages can help couples understand how they give and receive love, but they are only part of a healthy marriage. Learn how to build deeper emotional connection, communicate love more clearly, and love your spouse in a way they can actually feel.
A healthy marriage doesn’t happen because two people “fall in love.” It happens because two people keep choosing to grow, apologise, repair, communicate, and forgive.
You’re not having the same fight because your relationship is broken. Learn why couples repeat the same arguments and how to break the cycle, repair connection, and solve the real issue underneath.
Weaponised incompetence is the silent erosion in many modern marriages. Discover what it is, how to spot it, and how to fix it before resentment takes over.
Emotional disconnection is common in the parenting years, but it doesn’t have to be permanent. With intention, you can rebuild closeness and find your way back to each other.
Conflict is inevitable, but disconnection doesn’t have to be. What matters most in marriage isn’t avoiding the argument, but how we find our way back afterward.
When the kids move out or grow up, it can feel like both a relief and a reckoning. You’ve spent years tag-teaming homework, sports drop-offs, sleepless nights, and busy weekends. But now that the house is quieter, what’s left between you?
Bids for connection are often disguised as everyday moments, a comment, a glance, a sigh. They may seem small, but they’re really asking, “Will you notice me?” When we learn to read etween the lines, we start hearing the real invitation, : see me, choose me.
Many of us go into relationships assuming that love should come naturally. That if we are kind, loyal, and give our best, our partner should feel loved. But here’s the challenge, what feels like love to you may not feel like love to them.
Stonewalling can feel incredibly painful. When someone you love suddenly goes quiet, it can feel like they’ve emotionally disappeared. You might start asking yourself, what's going on? Did I do something wrong? Why won’t they just talk to me?
Researchers call it “technoference”, the everyday interruptions that happen when digital devices distract us from the people right in front of us.
At the heart of every thriving relationship, whether in marriage, dating, or long-term partnerships, is something deeper than romance: friendship.
We all dream of a relationship that stands the test of time, but what truly makes that happen? Explore the 3 essential keys to lasting love: deep friendship, unwavering commitment, and the power of forgiveness.
Ever felt like you’re chasing after your partner while they’re pulling away? You're not alone—discover the common relationship dynamic that could be holding you both back.
In relationships, we tend to focus on red flags, but it's the green flags—the positive signs of love, trust, and respect—that truly lay the foundation for a strong relationship.
Is your relationship under attack by criticism, contempt, defensiveness, or stonewalling? Break the cycle and rebuild trust through positive, open communication.
Explore the key characteristics of porous, rigid, and healthy boundaries to enhance your relationships and personal growth. Learn practical tips for establishing balanced boundaries that foster meaningful connections and protect your well-being.
Attachment styles shape the way we connect with our partners, impacting intimacy and communication. Understanding your attachment style can help create stronger, healthier relationships.
Relationship rituals, inspired by the Gottman Method, are simple, intentional traditions that bring you and your partner closer. It's about showing up with love and consistency, building a deeper, lasting connection..
Money can often create tension in relationships, but by understanding each other's beliefs and behaviours, fostering clear communication and shared goals.
Marriage is a beautiful paradox, blending joy and challenge, risk and reward. Through vulnerability, selflessness, and growth, couples can deepen their connection and find lasting love.
Unmet expectations can create frustration and distance in relationships, often without either partner realising it. Bridging the expectation gap requires clear communication, mutual understanding, and aligning your desires with reality
True growth in marriage begins when we stop blaming and take responsibility for our actions, emotions, and the way we communicate with one another.
Ready to transform your relationship? Discover 10 practical, down-to-earth keys that can help you and your partner truly understand each other better.
Do you find yourself hovering over your partner's every move? Discover four telltale signs that your support might be veering into overprotection.
Have you ever wondered what truly defines love in a relationship? The Triangular Theory of Love breaks it down into three essential components, intimacy, passion, and commitment, offering valuable insights into how these elements interact to shape our romantic connections.
Conflict isn’t about winning or losing, it’s about understanding each other better. When handled with respect and care, disagreements can strengthen your relationship, not weaken it.
The Healthy Marriage
Want to create a happier, healthier relationship? Explore our collection of practical articles that focus on enhancing communication, resolving conflict, and rekindling intimacy. Real tools, real talk, for real marriages.
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I’m not anti-technology, I’m pro-childhood. A smartphone is not just a device; it’s a doorway into constant stimulation, comparison, distraction, and pressure. This is why I chose to delay giving my child her own phone: to protect her attention, sleep, confidence, emotional health, and the sacred space of growing up slowly.
If we protect our kids from every challenge, we don’t make them safer, we make them weaker. Antifragile children learn to face discomfort, adapt, and rise stronger. The question isn’t how do we remove struggle, but how do we guide them through it well?
You didn’t grow up with it, safety, softness, or someone who truly saw you. But now? You get to be what you needed. This is where generational change begins.
Screens shape how teens see themselves, often through a lens of comparison and pressure. But with the right guidance, we can help them build real-world confidence that lasts beyond the scroll.
Are screens affecting children’s focus? Explore how digital habits may impact attention spans, emotional regulation, learning, and what parents can do to help.
It often starts with small signs, tummy aches, tears at drop-off, or growing resistance that gradually becomes a daily battle. For many families, it feels confusing, exhausting, and deeply distressing. This article explores what school refusal really is, why it happens, and what actually helps children return to school with support and confidence.
Screens shape how teens see themselves, often through a lens of comparison and pressure. But with the right guidance, we can help them build real-world confidence that lasts beyond the scroll.
Is your child struggling every time you say goodbye? Learn how to support their separation anxiety with calm, connection, and confidence-building strategies that make all the difference.
Preparing for your first baby isn’t just practical, it’s emotional and relational too. Strong foundations come from connection, communication, and care. You don’t need to be perfect, just present.
If you’ve ever gone to bed replaying the day in your head, wondering if you were too harsh, too distracted, or just not enough, you’re not alone. Parenting guilt is real, here’s how to work through it.
Teens are more digitally connected than ever, but at what cost to their mental health and relationships? This article explores how parents can guide them toward balanced tech use with understanding, not fear.
Before you manage your child’s meltdown, manage your own.
Your calm doesn’t just comfort, it rewires their brain for safety and connection.
Play isn’t just fun—it’s a powerful way for children to learn and grow. Discover how play-based learning fosters resilience, creativity, and social skills, setting the stage for lifelong success.
Parenting in the digital age requires a delicate balance between embracing technology and setting healthy boundaries. As screens become more integral to our children's lives, it's up to parents to guide responsible tech habits.
Raising boys can feel like a wild ride filled with laughter and challenges. By nurturing their emotional side and teaching them empathy, we can guide them to become kind, confident men who are ready to tackle life’s ups and downs
Research shows that children with close bonds to their grandparents often experience greater emotional security, leading to lower levels of stress and anxiety.
Wondering how to help your teen embrace challenges and grow from setbacks? Discover powerful ways to foster a growth mindset that builds resilience and confidence for life
Motherhood can feel like a whirlwind of sleepless nights, trying tantrums, and high expectations. But remember, In the midst of it all, you are chosen, seen, and more than enough.
Navigating peer pressure can be tough for teens, but they don’t have to face it alone. With the right support and strategies, we can empower them to make independent choices and stay true to themselves.
Balancing warmth and boundaries is essential for raising emotionally healthy children. Authoritative parenting nurtures kids while teaching them the importance of limits.
Do you know your parenting style? Discover how understanding it can help you nurture your child's independence and emotional growth.
A child may forget the toy you bought them, the exact holiday you took them on, or the advice you gave in the car. But they rarely forget the feeling of having a dad who noticed them. A dad who looked up. A dad who listened. A dad who made them feel like they mattered.
Research shows the first 12 months are crucial for secure attachment, laying the foundation for emotional development. By responding warmly and consistently, you build trust and resilience that impacts your child’s well-being for life.
Take control of your anxiety to create a calm, secure environment for your child. By modeling calmness, you empower them to handle their emotions with confidence—start leading by example today
Helping kids manage big emotions means giving them the tools to understand and express their feelings, so they can navigate challenges with confidence and calm.
Consistency helps manage challenging behavior by providing clear expectations and security. This article shows how the Triple P framework can set boundaries and reduce misbehavior.
Your child’s brain is being wired every day, not just by what they experience, but by how you respond to what they experience.
The Healthy Mother
Welcome to The Healthy Mother, for mums navigating the beautiful, exhausting, sacred work of raising kids. Written by psychologist and mum-of-two Sabrina Peters, these articles cover everything from infant development to teen mental health, screen time, mum guilt, and how to raise emotionally resilient kids. Practical, evidence-based, and written by someone can relate.
About Sabrina
Sabrina Peters is a registered psychologist, credentialled pastor, and mother of three, based in Brisbane, Australia. With nearly two decades of people care experience, she blends evidence-based psychology with a deep faith and lived experience. Passionate about healthy families, she spend her days raising kids, supporting clients, and creating resources that inspire emotional and spiritual wholeness. Her writing, podcast, and clinical work all share the same heart: helping people live whole, in their minds, marriages, families, and faith.
Anyone can begin with excitement. Grit is what keeps you moving when the excitement wears off. Psychology shows that purpose and perseverance are deeply connected to wellbeing. The happiest people don’t always have the easiest lives, they’re often the ones building the most meaningful ones.