6 Types of Guys to Avoid
Disclaimer: This article is presented from a Christian perspective and is intended for those who align with or are interested in Biblical values. It is not meant to impose these beliefs on others but to offer insights and information for those who find it relevant.
No one has it all together, including you and me. So let’s not misconstrue this article as a quest for perfection in finding a partner. Instead, it’s about reflecting on what we desire in a relationship and being mindful of potential warning signs. Perfection is unattainable, but there is value in balancing emotional instincts with logical reasoning in relationships.
Ladies, here are six types of guys you might want to cross off your list:
The "Half Committed" Guy He’s into you one week, but the next, he’s saying, “Let’s just be friends.” One week it’s flowers and calls, the next, it’s dead silence. If your relationship feels like a yo-yo, it might be time to cut the string. You deserve someone who is genuinely committed, not playing games and dragging you along.
The "Kind of Christian" Guy He says he’s a Christian, but his actions don’t match up. He may attend church but lacks a genuine faith that shapes his life. Don’t settle for a lukewarm believer. Seek a man whose life and values reflect his faith.
The "Hook-Up Only" Guy If he only reaches out for a quick make-out session, he’s using you. Healthy relationships are built on more than physical intimacy. Don’t waste your time on someone who isn’t interested in commitment.
The "Never Have a Job" Guy If he can’t take care of himself, he can’t take care of you. Choose a man who is motivated and responsible, not one who relies on others for basic needs. Look for someone who is working towards stability and self-sufficiency.
The "White Lies" Guy Constantly telling white lies and sneaking around? Say goodbye before things get serious. Trust is essential in any relationship. If he’s vague about where he is or who he’s with, he might be hiding more significant issues.
The "Super Controlling" Guy It’s normal to check in with each other, but it’s not normal for him to monitor your every move. You deserve a partner who trusts and respects you, not one who controls and manipulates. If he’s snooping or playing mind games, he’s not worth your time.
As mentioned at the start, we all come into relationships with flaws. This isn’t about dismissing someone for being human but about ensuring you’re entering relationships with clear goals and standards. Pursue relationships with conviction and intention, and remember to reflect on who you are becoming, as you teach others how to treat you.
Disclaimer: The views expressed in this article reflect my personal Christian beliefs and are not intended to be imposed on others. Readers are encouraged to explore their own spiritual and professional beliefs in line with their values.